Last Updated: 28 August 2025

Black Friday is a Trap. Here’s How to Escape It?

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Black Friday is a Trap. Here’s How to Escape It?
Annabel GibsonWritten ByAnnabel Gibson

Annabel is the Marketing Coordinator at Propeller, taking on the production of social media communications, creating copy for articles and contacting external agencies for collaborations.

Let’s be honest with each other for a minute.

Black Friday is a trap. It’s a high-stress, low-margin, brand-damaging vortex. Every year, right around the time the leaves start to turn, you can feel it in the air. That low hum of anxiety. The planning meetings start showing up on the calendar, all with the same grim subject line. The arguments about discount percentages begin. 30%? 40%? Do we go for the doorbuster? The whole operation slowly gets consumed by this one, single day on the calendar.

It feels less like a golden opportunity and more like an obligation. A really stressful, margin-killing, brand-diluting obligation. And I see so many great brands—brands with real stories, real quality, and a base of fans who genuinely love them—get sucked right into the vortex. They do it because they feel like they have to.

So I have to ask: Why? Seriously, why are we still putting ourselves through this?

The magic is long gone. What used to be a one-day treasure hunt for a killer deal is now a bloated, month-long garage sale. The emails start before Halloween. The “pre-sales” and “early access” codes fly around until they mean nothing. By the time the actual Friday rolls around, everyone is just exhausted. Your customers are numb to the endless parade of screaming discount banners. You’re tired of it. Your team is burned out. It has become a joyless, frantic slog.

If you’re on the fence about it this year, let me tell you what I see from my side of the table. Deciding to participate in Black Friday isn’t just a sales tactic; it’s a statement about who you are as a brand. And for most good brands, it’s the wrong one.

The Hidden Traps You Don't See Coming

The promise of a massive revenue spike is a powerful drug. I get it. It looks fantastic on a chart for the board meeting. But that chart doesn’t show the hangover that comes on Saturday morning, or the slow-burn damage that lasts all year. This isn’t just about a one-day hit to your profit margins. This is about the foundational pillars of your brand.

Trap #1: The Devaluation Trap

This is the big one, the original sin of discounting. The second you slash your prices by 40%, you are planting a seed of doubt in your customer’s mind. You’re screaming to the world that your normal price is, frankly, a bit of a sham. You’re creating a permanent psychological anchor. From that day forward, the “real” price of your product in that customer’s mind is the sale price. Everything else just feels like they’re being overcharged.

You are training your best, most interested customers to simply wait. Why on earth would anyone buy that beautiful jacket from you in October when they know, with absolute certainty, that it will be significantly cheaper in a few weeks? You’re effectively putting your entire business on pause for a month just to get a sudden, artificial rush. It’s like eating candy for dinner—a quick sugar high followed by a long, painful crash.

Trap #2: The One-Night-Stand Customer Trap

Sure, the traffic spikes. The sales notifications pop off. You move a ton of inventory. But take a close look at who is buying. These are deal-chasers. They are loyal to the discount, not to your story. They don’t care about your ethical sourcing, your clever design, or the community you’ve painstakingly built. They sniffed out a bargain, they clicked, they bought, and they will disappear.

These aren’t your people. They won’t open your newsletters. They won’t engage with your posts. They won’t rave about you to their friends. They are ghosts in your CRM system. You get a transaction, but you don’t get a customer. Not a real one, anyway. A real customer has skin in the game. Building a brand is about finding those people. Black Friday is about finding anybody with a credit card. The two goals are fundamentally at odds.

Trap #3: The "Thanks for Nothing" Trap

Let’s talk about your actual fans. The ones who keep the lights on from January to October. The person who bought a full-priced item from you last Tuesday. The advocate who tells all their friends about you. They are the foundation of your entire business.

How do you think they feel when they see the product they just invested in plastered everywhere at a massive discount, available to any random person who wanders by? It feels like a punishment for their loyalty. It’s a quiet, stinging betrayal. You’re chasing strangers at the expense of the people who already love you. It’s a lousy way to thank the very people who have your back, and over time, that feeling of being taken for granted curdles into resentment.

Trap #4: The "Who Are We, Again?" Trap

Your brand is a story. It’s a collection of values, beliefs, and promises. Maybe you’re about slow fashion and mindful consumption. Maybe you’re about rugged, buy-it-for-life quality. Maybe you’re about clean ingredients and wellness.

Now, how does a frantic, hyper-consumerist, impulse-driven sales event fit into that story? It doesn’t. It’s a jarring plot hole. It makes your values look like a convenient marketing angle, not a genuine conviction. And in this day and age, people can spot inauthenticity from a mile away. You spend 11 months building trust, and you can burn a good chunk of it in one weekend of cognitive dissonance.

I Get It. The Fear Is Real.

Now, after all that, I know what you might be thinking. “Easy for you to say, but my competitors are going all-in. If I sit out, I’ll get steamrolled.”

The fear of missing out is a beast. It’s real. You see the flashy ads from your biggest rivals, you get pressure from investors who just want to see a big number, and there’s a genuine panic that if you go quiet, you’ll become invisible. It feels safer to just join the herd, even if you know the herd is heading somewhere you don’t really want to go.

Choosing to opt out isn’t a passive decision; it’s an active, brave one. It requires confidence. It requires trusting that the brand you’ve built is strong enough to stand on its own without the crutch of a massive discount. It’s scary, I know. But the alternative—slowly eroding everything that makes you special just to keep up—is far scarier.

Playing a Different Game: Smarter Moves

So what does a brave November look like? It means you play a different game entirely.

  • The Anti-Sale: Take a page from Patagonia‘s book. Use the day to make a statement. Donate 100% of your sales to a cause. Close your website for the day and encourage people to go outside. Do something so unexpected and on-brand that it generates more buzz than any 30% discount ever could.
  • The Loyalty Play: Forget new customers for a week. Focus all your energy on the ones you already have. Give them a surprise gift with every order. Offer them early access to a new, full-priced product. Send your top 100 customers a personal thank-you note. Make them feel like the insiders they are.
  • The Value-Add Play: Don’t touch your prices. Instead, add irresistible value. Offer free, expedited shipping on all orders for the whole week. Include a high-value, exclusive gift with every purchase over a certain threshold. Offer complimentary personalization or gift wrapping. You maintain your price integrity while still giving people a compelling reason to buy now.
  • The Storytelling Play: Just… ignore it. Drown out the noise with your own signal. Use the week to tell the deepest, most interesting story about your brand you’ve ever told. Introduce your makers. Show the painstaking process behind your most popular product. Be a calm, confident island in a sea of frantic chaos.

At the end of the day, skipping the Black Friday circus is a power move. It’s a quiet declaration of confidence. It says, “What we make is worth its price, today and every day.”

It’s not about missing out on a sale. It’s about stepping up to build a brand that lasts.

Look, this is what we chew on all day at Propeller Digital. We don’t just build websites; we build resilient eCommerce platforms designed to thrive year-round. If you’re tired of the discount hamster wheel and ready to build something with lasting value, let’s do it together.